It does not appear one can opt out certain folders from this scan. If you enable iCloud backups, it's scans the entire shebang.
As previously mentioned, Android doesn't scan all photos on your device... Google scans content uploaded to their servers. Which is reasonable... It's their servers, they can host what they want. Your iPhone is your iPhone.
Yes, you do need a citation, because I've not heard Apple (or anyone else) claim that iCloud Backups or iCloud Drive are being subject to CSAM scans.
From everything I've read, from Apple and other sources, if the photo is about to be uploaded to iCloud Photo Library then it is scanned for CSAM. If it's not, it isn't.
If the default behavior is not to exclude photo rolls from this new feature, I'm not sure where the argument exists. Telling iOS users they should download some app to keep photos private is absurd.
I've no idea what your point is. I've tried offering answers for all these random questions, but I'm still waiting for you to offer a citation for the claim you made earlier.
As previously mentioned, Android doesn't scan all photos on your device... Google scans content uploaded to their servers. Which is reasonable... It's their servers, they can host what they want. Your iPhone is your iPhone.